funny that you were my strongest endorser for finding my voice, and expressing myself properly, to shout out "bull-shit' if needed to protect my integrity... then one day , i called out 'bull-shit' , (maybe my method was improper~ ) and it all back-fired... and turned nasty... I guess I wasn't supposed to call you out on how you made me feel , the response back was hurt-ful , not help-ful..... yikes !! sorry to disappoint!!