Anki Vesterlund

Anki Vesterlund

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One of the obstacles to recognizing chronic mistreatment in relationships is that most abusive men simply don't seem like abusers. They have many good qualities, including times of kindness, warmth, and humor, especially in the early period of a relationship. An abuser's friends may think the world of him. He may have a successful work life and have no problems withdrugs or alcohol. He may simply not fit anyone's image of a cruel or intimidating person. So when a woman...

{You think it's only, at its worst, "chronic mistreatment" but what it actually is, is abuse. Narcs are especially skilled at prolonged abuse, as often their mistreatment is not physical but is covert & "excusable"}