Life is too short. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Laugh when you can apologize when you should and let go of what you can't change. Need to remember the grudges and letting go part more often. Hard for me to forget.
“The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be” -Marcel Pagnol (French Writer, Producer and Film Director,