All too often we believe that the problem is us, when nothing could be farther from the truth. Just as the flower fails to bloom in an unfavorable environment, so to do we. Change your environment and change your life.
I have a Learning disability that causes me to learn academics four years slower then my age. This does not mean I never learn, it just means that we need to work a little more & take a little longer to learn. But I promise you.