People push you to your limits, but when you finally explode and fight back . you are the mean one ! In this situation, the people pushing you to your limits know exactly how to control you . through the use of Shame Guilt. Shame on THEM.
People will always disappoint us because we are all imperfect. but we can give grace w/o being a doormat. If we cut off relationships of those who disappoint us, we will end up alone. But leaving them in my life makes me lonely too.
I will always help people because I've been there myself many times. But when I realize I'm helping for the wrong reasons, when I realize I'm being lied to and taken advantage of, I will stop. I will walk away.
"The INFJ does not take the action of the Door Slam lightly. If this occurs there has likely been many warning signs beforehand. INFJs are extremely caring individuals, but everyone has their limits. The INFJ simply feels that they must “take out the tras