I was in one for a little less than a year. He was great at first but his true colors came out. Every time we fought he would say the most hurtful things. He has used what I have told him in confidence against me, things I am not comfortable about. He told me I faked my depression and my anxiety attacks. He is a liar and a manipulator, he will put a smile on and act like he is the best human being but when the doors are closed and no one else is arround he is completely different.