you need to ignore what everyone else is doing and achieving. your life is about breaking you won limits and outgrowing yourself to live your best life. you are not in competition with anyone else; plan to outdo your past, not other people.
You will always be too much of something for someone. If you round out your edges, you lose your edge. Apologize for mistakes. Apologize for unintentionally hurting someone - profusely. But don't apologize for being who you are.