A lot of people are either unaware or simply do not look after their cactus and complain when it does not blossom. You will get treatment based on your unique physique, with a concentration on problem locations.
Rape is not about what the victim does or does not do. Rape does not happen because the women walk or dress or act in some way -rape is an act of violence. In SA they even rape new born babies and 90 year old grandmothers. Don't dare blame the victims.