let it go- "get over it!", "give it to god" or more eloquently - ".grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, The courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference." If you can do that, life is soooo much better.
It's funny how people make important decisions in life, the most important decisions of their life, based on what everyone else, the unimportant outsiders primarily, will think about things. Pretty backward way to live.