Wifehood is the biggest blessing but it is also hard work. If your husband has checked out, God has not. He can use you to restore your marriage but first you must surrender the pieces of your marriage, and heart, to Him.
No matter what you see in the media, being a Godly woman who knows her worth in Jesus is not a thing of the past. Be brave enough to keep being that woman and set an example of Jesus everywhere you go. That's where your worth comes from!