Chris tells this to her men all the time. "Don't go out there trying to be a hero,heros never live long.
“There was no scientific achievement, or novel prizes, nothing that should logically make you better than your siblings. But Mom saw your great heart. She said that a mind filled with knowledge is nothing without a heart filled with love, and while you were a far cry from dumb your still were not the smartest one on the block. But Mom said that your heart of gold was worth more than all the riches of the world.”