When you make a decision to have a child you're also making the decision to take responsibility for that child. You don't abandon your obligation as a parent because you have "other plans". I'm over deadbeat parents!
This is the truth. I don't give a damn about your money but I DO give a damn about you hurting me by never wanting to see me. Both of my dead beat dads. You have no conscience but your lack of love.made me a stronger person. I pity you.
They are children, they care that their parents show-up, that when there is a Christmas recital, and they peek through the curtains – all of the people they love are there – without fighting, for the best interest of the child.