A woman isn't a thing to catch because she is pretty to look at. Glorifying "hard to get" perpetuates rape culture that tells men it's okay to keep pursuing a woman after she says no because she doesn't really mean it. She's just "playing hard to get".
“A bad attitude is like a flat tire. You can't go anywhere until you change it” This is very true. You shouldn't have a bad attitude. Change it to a positive one and then you'll be able to achieve whatever you want to achieve.