The fact that girl being a feminist is a turn off to a lot of guys is just further proof that sexism exists. They're literally saying they don't want a girl who requires respect because that's just no fun.
Colleen McCullough, author of "The Thornbirds" & more, d. Jan her obit was remarked on this way "Why feminism? Because you can sell 30 MILLION copies of a single book and when you die, The Australian prints this"
This says it all, and this is why it's so offensive when men discuss the subject and think they understand anything. If that man has been educated or, you know, raped himself, he can fucking talk about it.