I like this and I like the below as well. If he is truly elevating you he would have all these things in mind for her as well. WOW now there is a big chunk of truth! However I think we ALL just want to be loved, respected, adored and cuddled :-)
YOU, and only you, are responsible for your actions. Your parents send you into the world with a set of values. You do wrong, you suffer your own consequences. Should you do right, you reap the rewards.