This is true. But setting boundaries doesn't mean you're not being nice. Why have we equated setting boundaries with being mean? Or rude?

Haha some days. Some people say to me "you've changed. what happened?" And all I can say is, how fucking far back do you want me te go?


I want what everyone wants- A love with no betrayal, A life of happiness, To strive for goals without competing, Respect to come from honesty & truths from friends instead of enemies༺


When you deal with a manipulator, it can feel like you've lost control of the situation. Here are some great comebacks for dealing with manipulators.


Sorry works when a mistake is made, but not when trust is broken. So in life, make mistakes but never break trust. Because forgiving is easy, but forgetting & trusting again is sometimes impossible.


Take a look at this 'Five Deadly Terms' is amazing that as a woman it seems like I've always known the meaning of these terms.and yet the men in my life still do not understand their meaning.

Not a problem for me.  I can look right thru people who threaten my joy.

Start ignoring people who threaten your joy. Literally, ignore them. Say nothing. Don't invite any parts of them into your space. Learned this from a psychotherapist! It actually works!

Everyone sees the world differently.

Is Your Perception Your Reality? Do you have all the facts about what is going on around you or are you just making judgments or assumptions?

Something to think about...

If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative. Know when to close the account. words-i-need-to-remember