Just as the destination of a glowing fire Struck with a [blacksmith’s] iron hammer, Gradually growing calm, Isn’t known: Even so, there’s no destination to describe For those rightly released Having crossed over the flood of sensuality’s bond For those who’ve attained Unwavering bliss. Ud 8.10 Dabba Sutta. Theravada Buddhism.
Never depend on someone else to make you happy. Only God can make you happy! Create yourself a full, happy life, seeking God and finding hobbies and ways to express your gifts, and your man will be included in your happiness, a gift from God.