I'm not a girl who wants to live the "ideal" life. I'm not a girl who will change my life for a man. I'm a girl who wants to live a life of adventure, and if some guy loves me, he won't mind tagging along.
Please excuse the language but this is on point. Communication is key and just because some people lack skills, don't expect the rest of us to know what it is you are needing, wanting or expressing if you can't say it!