Even though the analogy isn't perfect, it raises a good point. If women decide to trust a man and give him a chance and then get hurt, people are like "Well you should have been more careful. You know there are bad men out there, why did you trust him?" but when we are careful and don't trust men, it's like "Wow, why do you hate men so much? They're not all dangerous, jeez." So please tell me, how are we supposed to win? What do we do?