Narcissistic Stepfamily dynamics

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Patrick Teahan on Instagram: "When you’ve heard it before, and it’s not only predictable, but doesn’t have the same power it used to have over you.⁠
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Patterns

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Brighter Outlook Counselling on Instagram: “For professional counselling in your narcissistic abuse recovery please inbox me or email me at nova@brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au Link…”
I choose to spend my time with people who have no hidden agenda, who don't use passive-aggressive behaviours, and who don't look for a reason to be offended -- Barrie Davenport ... #thedamien #dancingwithdamien #time #choose #passiveaggresive #behaviour #hiddenagenda #reason #offended How to live with a passive aggressive husband

Cycle Breaker

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Coercive parenting /adult children co-abusers

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Maria Consiglio on Instagram
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Covert Christian Narcissist

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Narcissist Awareness Strategies on Instagram: "Via @quora.digest #agingnarcissist"
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Histrionic Personality disorder

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Dr. Nicole LePera on Instagram: "As a recovering “rescue me” partner I hope this brings a-ha moments for those in similar patterns #selfhealers"
UNDERSTANDING THE NARC on Instagram: "They get you to the point where you are not yourself anymore. You suffer from depression, Anxiety, CPTSD, and/or something else. You are really suffering. Then they use that to say, he/she is not right. They used what they caused you to have against you, and in their favor. It is so horrible…"

Trauma informed

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Patrick Teahan on Instagram: "Children absorb and repeat whatever ideas or narratives caregivers tell them. Little sponges.⁠
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In the toxic family, children hear and repeat unhealthy and untrue narratives.⁠
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"You know your mother loves you, so don't be upset."⁠
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"You're ruining my life and I wish I stayed single."⁠
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"Girls can't do things like that, boys can."⁠
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"You're always creating problems!"⁠
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"Being real is mean."⁠
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"Boys don't cry...what are you doing?"⁠
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These result in us continuing these lies in our adulthood when we don't want to get mean with an abusive partner, when we overly accept fault, when we have issues with our sexuality or self will, or when we unconsciously assume we ruin people's lives.⁠
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You'll see children who are going through childhood trauma repeat these
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Children

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Josh Connolly on Instagram: "A very needed reminder… and believe me, toxic people will frame it like you’re holding a grudge… #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #boundaries #boundariesarehealthy #toxicparents"
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Changed Behavior

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Maria Consiglio on Instagram
Maria Consiglio on Instagram: "I hope things will eventually change and there was a way the courts could identify and give the proper punishment. God Bess 💕"
Tina Swithin on Instagram: "“Several countries, including Scotland, France, England, Wales, & Ireland, have adopted coercive control laws over the last decade. In response, 4 states — first Hawaii (inspired by Scotland), then California (Sept 2020), Connecticut (Jennifer’s Law- 2021), and Washington (2022) — have recently taken the groundbreaking step of passing the nation’s first laws against coercive control. In Canada, the Divorce Act was changed in 2021 to recognize coercive control as a for

Laws America needs

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Fedup_bonusmama on Instagram: "#blendedfamily #narcissisticmoms #bonusmom #stepmom #stepmomsupport #highconflictbiomoms #exwifeproblems #bonusparents #highconflictparent #hcbm #hccp #highconflictcoparent #coparenting #narcissist #toxic #toxicpeople #bonusmomproblems #toxicex #toxicmom #parentalalienation #femalenarcissist #covertnarcissist #biodad #coparentingstruggles #narcissiticabuse #thestruggleisreal"
Fedup_bonusmama on Instagram: "We’ve experienced pretty much all of these. #blendedfamily #narcissisticmoms #bonusmom #stepmom #stepmomsupport #highconflictbiomoms #exwifeproblems #bonusparents #highconflictparent #hcbm #hccp #highconflictcoparent #coparenting #narcissist #toxic #toxicpeople #bonusmomproblems #toxicex #toxicmom #parentalalienation #femalenarcissist #covertnarcissist #biodad #coparentingstruggles #narcissiticabuse #thestruggleisreal"

PAS

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Carl Knickerbocker, MA, JD on Instagram: “When we apply Murphy’s Law to a narcissistic ex, we find that anything they can possibly jack with they will jack with. If there is a…”
WOKE TO NARCISSISM on Instagram: “Narcissists cannot coexist with the truth; it is their kryptonite. When faced with home truths watch them flounce out. Exposure of who they…”

Romans 16:17-18

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Patrick Teahan on Instagram: "Plenty of hurt people don’t and there has never been more resources and info about changing abusive behavior. ⁠
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This is more for you than it is for them. ⁠
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Follow for more education on childhood trauma.⁠
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Patrick Teahan on Instagram: "Trigger warning: Here are some toxic honesty terms maybe you've heard.⁠
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"Look, I'm just going to say it...you're very overweight for your age."⁠
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"You should give up on that. It's clearly not for you."⁠
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"Gotta be honest here...you'll never get (partner, job, degree), and maybe you should lower your standards."⁠
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"I just don't want you to think you'll get there with your body type...and end up disappointed. Someone has to say it…"⁠
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In my case, "Well...you'll never be a singer."⁠
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My mother would casually say this whenever she heard me singing Purple Rain or Separate Ways.⁠
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The memory stuck because it caused intense shame and was really effective in me not feeling good about singing. The jokes on her as I later got a BA in music, sang in
Patrick Teahan on Instagram: "What this looks like in the toxic parent is big statements around naming evidence of some kind. Most of which was different from what you needed. ⠀⁠
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"You were clothed, fed, and educated...what do you expect."⠀⁠
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(you needed healthy attachment to a secure available loving person, not just the basics)⠀⁠
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"I signed you up for dance lessons, but you never went."⠀⁠
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(you needed an adult to teach showing up and being consistent as well as a ride to these things)⠀⁠
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"I did my best to keep my marriage going for you."⠀⁠
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(you needed healthy modeling and protection)⠀⁠
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Taking on the responsibility of raising children is immense. But, unfortunately, many abusive parents behave like their children's needs are just concrete - food, shelter, good image, or fo

1 Cor 15:33

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Matthew 6:22-24

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Amanda Jane | Covert Narcissist Info on Instagram: "You certainly can come out, heal and be stronger for it but let’s not simply dismiss someone’s trauma period. > Posted @withregram • @nate_postlethwait Sending peace to those rebuilding. Please know there are a lot of people that understand the complexity of living in a world that makes up narratives to ignore hurt peoples pain. . . . #healing #peace #narcissist #narcissism #liar #manipulate #covert #covertnarcissist #traumabond #ptsd #cheater #toxicrelationship #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #trauma #gaslighting #redflags #betrayal #narcawareness #lies #evil #truth #therapy #deception #betrayaltrauma #psychologicalabuse #emotionalabuse"
20+ Signs Of Emotional Trauma In Adults You Might Not Recognize

Proverbs 6: 17-19 Effects of Narcissistic Abuse

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Maria Consiglio on Instagram: "We have no control how other people will respond to us. Being good to people does not guarantee that they will be good to us as well. We can learn about toxic people and protect ourselves the best way we can but even then people wear masks and there is no full proof way to keep us safe.  We have to learn to trust in ourselves. Trust that we will be ok. That we have our own back and if someone hurts us we will survive."

Ephesians 4:31-32 Stepmom Scapegoat

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